Feb 13, 2009

My Valentine

It is far too easy to not give credit where credit is due on a daily basis. Shame on me for never getting around to a blog post I wanted to do several months ago dedicated to Josh. I was going to call it "Homage to Josh" and I was going to name all the things about him that I love, that I appreciate, that make me feel better when I am down, and just generally make me happy. He is a good man and a good daddy. I think the world of my husband and I want to take this Valentine's Day to say so. My husband, my valentine, is a blessing to me.

Some ways Josh blesses me:

He lets me have the last piece/bite of food if I want it

He gives me massages when I ask, but usually lets me off the hook for returning the massage

He takes Noah when he runs errands so I can have a little break

He cooks if I don't and never once has gotten mad at me for not

He encourages me to go out by myself more often while he keeps the kids

He is so, so, so handy and can fix just about everything we need fixed

He gets up with Anna at night just as much as I do

He calls a lot when he is out of town

He brings me little surprises when he gets home from trips or errands

He will make phone calls for me because I get too freaked out to do them myself

He is so very selfless...I feel like he puts me before himself all the time

He says he prefers me without make-up on (although, I still can't tell if that is an insult to the way I put on make-up or not)

He listens to my teeny, tiny daily details when I retell them and he cares (and if he doesn't, I at least feel like he does)

He cleans the bathrooms when they need it

He loves our babies

He changes diapers, dresses, bathes, holds, feeds, and plays with our babies

He does Noah's bedtime routine every single night he is home

He wears nose strips at night (so I can sleep better) even though he hates them

Once he stayed up all night with me because I was so upset about not being able to sleep

He doesn't hound me if I buy something he thinks we didn't need

He is genuinely helpful with anything he can help with...he never complains

If we both have something to watch on TV at the same time, he lets me watch mine and he records his for later

He has made my love and desire to grow our family by adoption his own love and desire

He was my savior during those early days (and especially nights) with Anna and all her crying

He listens to me, considers me, and encourages me

He likes my company

He plans his trips out of town for days when Noah has school so that I won't be so outnumbered or stressed

He will leave for a day trip at 3:00 in the morning to keep from having to be gone overnight the night before

He provides for this life that allows me to be home for our family

4 comments:

Emily said...

what a good guy! Way to go Josh...you're a good man to my sister!!!! That makes him a fantastic bro-in-law!

Heather said...

Way to go, Kimmie, of thinking of all the things you love about your husband. So often, it seems I can find the negative qualities about Kore and overlook all the wonderful and amazing qualities that he has. I may just have to post a blog just like this one, honoring my soul mate!

Elizabeth Bradley said...

Hooray for wonderful husbands! And for thankful wives... :)

Alison said...

What would we do without men that cooked :).