Feb 14, 2011

V-Day: A Song and a List

This weekend while I was gone to a baby shower, Josh and the kids made me valentines.  My favorites are Anna's unpredictable message- "Yellow," - and Noah's drawing of me, him, and Anna.  ♥


Josh is out of town today and the next few days, too.  Doesn't exactly make for a special Valentine's Day ... except it does.  Sweet treats in surprising places saved the day.  Josh slipped little Kit Kats in my make-up bag, under my pillow, in the cabinet, in the car, and he tells me there are a few I haven't found yet apparently.  The card he left named day-to-day things married couples do and then summed it all up with, "There's no one I want beside me besides you."  This made me grin because it's so us.  And it's so the exact same message I had in mind for dedicating this song to him today. 

I Want You With Me
by Leann Rimes

When I'm walking down the street
on a quiet afternoon
Or when I hear our favorite song
and it gets me in the mood
When I don't know who I am
and the world is not my friend
When I fight my way back up again

Oh, I want you with me every move I make
I want you to see all that I see
Through the laughter and the madness
And every moment in between
Oh, I want you with me

When I tell my daddy bye
for the very last time
Or when I learn a whole new love
in our babies' first cry
When you can tell I've done it all
by the lines on my face
When I start regretting my mistakes

Oh, I want you with me every move I make
I want you to see all that I see
Through the laughter and the madness
And every moment in between
Oh, I want you with me

Back when Josh and I were dating, I listed a bunch of things I liked about him. I can't remember if it was for Valentine's Day or not, but he keeps it in his wallet to this day (at least last time I checked it was still there).  So in honor of another Valentine's Day, I added some more stuff I love about Josh - some of the "real-life" romance that I would take over a flashy fancy holiday dinner date any day!

Stuff I've loved and still love about my man:
  • How he checks on the kids before he goes to bed every night
  • How he is King of the kids' bath times
  • How I don't have to tell him how to pack the kids or what all needs to be done to put them to bed
  • How he takes one of the kids with him to do a grocery run for me - double blessing!
  • How he reads every bit of our blog
  • How he always makes hearty breakfasts 
  • How he picks up my slack when needed
  • How he loves and genuinely enjoys our babies
  • How he is just plain and simple my best friend - I am completely myself with him
  • How we laugh so hard together remembering specific commercials from years gone by that we liked
  • How he can fix anything
  • How he always cures my computer woes even though I am an impatient customer
  • How he sews buttons for me and cut, ironed, stitched, and finished oven mitts for Anna
  • How when he empties his pockets there are coins, trash, receipts, wallet, and little pink barrettes
  • How he made a light sabre out of a stick and painters tape so he could Jedi spar with Noah
  • How he gets pummeled as he walks through the door by all 4 of us
  • How it continues on til bedtime 
  • How he knows why Anna's being 2 years and 5 mos. old is significant
  • How he knows my unspoken pet peeves and laughs at them with me
  • How smart his Lego-selling idea was!
  • How he is such a stickler about Noah's breathing treatments
  • How he is not lazy - like, ever!  (only highlighted by the fact that I am)
  • How he laughs (me, too) when I growl "Aggravation!" cuz it reminds us of his dad
  • How it is so important to him to be available and active within our family
  • How he surprised the kids with valentines in their car seats today
Happy Valentine's Day, Josh!  I ♥ You always. 

8 comments:

Amy Faye Brown said...

I just posted my own Valentine's sweetness. After reading yours I just melted all over again. Our guys are the best!

Rebecca Bowles said...

Precious.... Never forget how much you have!

Emily said...

awe!!!!!

Amy Faye Brown said...

You added to the original post.
Be still my heart!

Kimberly said...

Confession: I add to/alter just about all my posts at least 3 times after I press post. :)

Emily said...

You're totally sentimental whether you think so or not! But in a good memory, not a packrat type way :) What a fun addition to that post...

I think I like Josh more now (not that I didn't like him to begin with) :) LOL!

Makes me want to make a list too!

Memaw said...

those BROWN guys ARE the BEST!

Unknown said...

What a great man! Kim, I'm so happy that you found Josh. You two sound perfect for each other. I feel the same way about Robbie and I. Like that commercial says, "I love us".