May 30, 2014

For Noah on his Eighth

Noah Brown,

In all my 35 years, these last EIGHT have been the brightest, most dynamic I have known.  HaPpY bIrThDaY again, precious boy!  What a gift the Lord ordained when he brought your life to ours.  You are just this magical miracle that I thank him for ALL the time.  You are the best little boy I have ever known. And your sweet grin matches my heart, which is always a'grinning over you.


In this year where you morphed into an EIGHT-year-old, you have grown in so many ways!  

In school stuff, you have begun homeschooling (obviously) and your confidence has soared in your second grade work.  You rock the spelling and math world and you have grown to love science especially.



Your reading has rocketed in fluidity, vocabulary, and comprehension.  While we are tackling more second grade skills in the fall in almost all subjects, your independent reading is well into third grade levels. Your favorite chapter books this year were Magic School Bus reads, the Stink series, and now the Imagination Station series.  By far, your favorite book that I read aloud to you was Charlie and the Chocolate Factory.

 

You lost your first THREE teeth - both bottom middles and then that top one.  So fun!


You gained four pounds and 2 inches, measuring in at 51 lbs and 47 inches tall.  You have left almost all your size 5 clothes behind finally and are now in all size 6/7s.  You left behind your size 10 shoes at last and jumped right up into 12/13s!

You completed your fifth and final year of immunotherapy (allergy shots) and so far your body has done amazingly without it.  Fingers crossed that that continues.

You graduated out of your speech services and no longer have ANY articulation struggles!  For this momma that has been hyper-alert to your speech patterns since the age of 3, that is a BIG milestone.  So proud of you!

We hit the pool and the ocean this year without any swim lessons for you (Eek!) and you were off to the races like a pro!  Such a strong and confident little swimmer at last.


You memorized SO MUCH Scripture this year.  I wouldn't even begin to retell all the verses and passages you took in and know.  Well over 3O for sure.  Watching you grow in knowledge and practice of God's word is the BEST thing ever. There is no greater joy!

New skills you picked up were learning to whistle and how to ride a two-wheeler. We still need to buckle down and teach you to tie laces. 

You set aside baseball to learn some tennis skills and you were so great at it!  It was cool to watch you go after something YOU chose to invest in instead of something we chose for you.

 

Your bedtime shifted from 7:15 to 7:45ish this year.  You take care of all your morning business without being told anymore - breakfast, brush teeth, get dressed, etc.  And now you can be trusted to do your own medicines and vitamins.  You are up every morning by 6:45.

You say the funniest things sometimes:

One night at dinner when we were talking about where our foods come from, you declared mid-bite into your roast that, "Cow is hard to chew."

Apparently I was revealing a little cleavage one day and, pointing to my chest, you asked why I had a little bottom there.   Ha!

When Anna was asking how God made the world, I explained He made everything by his word and we marveled at how awesome that is.  Your contribution to our theological conversation was "I am glad God made a DS for me!"

You have taken to spelling out entire words, phrases, even sentences sometimes instead of just saying them.  Sometimes that works, other times I am lost.  Like the time we were out at an ice cream place and you tried to warn me on the sly that you might have to go P-O-P.  I was confused, so you tried another spelling - P-U-P.  After more confusion on my part you had to clue me in to the fact that you needed to potty (p-o-o-p).  Ha!  Gross, but still funny.  

With a boy around, there is no shortage of potty humor.  Your most memorable contribution to the word world and our lives this year is the word "tooteristic."  You and Anna love to say it and we can't help but giggle even though we can't stand your many toots.  Oh, heaven help us, the gas you pass.  :S  All boy, it's not uncommon for us to hear you from the bathroom giggling uncontrollably at yourself, tooting in there, too.  

Another potty humor invention of yours is a phrase and motion that Anna in particular adores, the ever hilarious "Raise the Cannon" routine whereby you arch your booties in the air and let 'er rip.  You and Anna also can be heard saying a phrase you learned from your Papa, "Who scent the air?!" 

Some other things I love that you say are eeenyway/anyway, whoop cream/whipped cream, goodnap/goodnight,  betchables/vegetables.

 For my birthday, your gift idea for me was an oil change.  Ha!

When you were watching/reading Harry Potter with Daddy, you developed a really believable (and adorable) British accent.  I was impressed with your copycat words and expression!

When you found two long-lost Lego characters the week before Easter, you bounded down the stairs and declared, "A miracle appeared!  God made Easter come early!!"

Your most common teasing words for Anna involve calling her a "little old lady" with the emphasis on lady.

When told to get toys for a weekend trip to a cabin, you responded, "I don't want any toys. I just wanna sit by the fire." Bless your little old soul.

Ever my awesome little eater, when asking for more dinner one night you asked for seconds by saying, "I want more, but I want it to be alllll bethchables."  

And while it's not necessarily something you say, it is still notably hilarious ... your incessant giggling.  Oh the giggles, giggles, giggles you giggle!  You still, as I have always declared, LOVE TO LAUGH.  :} I love that about you.

You love to try your hand at knock-knock jokes and you also quote movies like a pro.  You are SO my son.


Other precious pieces of you I have treasured to observe ....

How your head flies up in attention when you hear a word or verse during a sermon that you recognize from your memory verses or bible study from home.  We love how often this happens!

Everyone mistakes that mole on your neck for a tick lately.  Your neck must be getting long for it to suddenly be so much more noticeable than before.

You have a new habit of rolling to your back and pushing your feet into the air when you watch TV.  It's so funny and so nostalgic for me.  I remember doing the same thing as a kid.


You can be trusted to come right out and ask for affection if you need it.  You'll come stand in front of me and say with a mock whimper, "You haven't given me any hugs or kisses today."

You still hold your pencil like a club when not paying attention, but it's become so you I almost love it whilst I hate it.  How do you do that to me?

You are an UNO fiend, playing almost every day and with anyone who is willing.  You just love games of all kinds really, including and especially iPad and video games.



You have this odd habit of holding your breath and forcing the air out when you can't hold it any longer and you do it without even knowing it.  It puzzles me and worries me, so I keep trying to bring it your attention in an effort to make it stop.

And while you took a season off baseball this spring, you have asked to play again in the fall and I can't wait.  :)

You read for 20 minutes every day during your hour of quiet time.

You still have accidents at night at least once a week. Wondering when that bladder of yours if going to finally grow up with you...

You have developed such a good relationship with your sister this year.  You really rise to the occasion of being a peacemaker and a friend to her.  It probably helps that she has grown up so much as well and is easier to play and get along with.


You got to spend sweet time with BOTH your birthparents this year and since then have spoken with them on the phone a couple times. I think you have asked more questions about them this year than any before.  And along those adoption-related lines, you are interested in the fact that we are talking about the next foster/adopt steps for our family.  You are so good with the little kids, so you are naturally excited about the idea of having another little sibling to do life with.  This will be such an adventure for us all!

You still let your toenails grow until they are curving around the tips of your toes.  I remark at your "bear claws" every time I can wrangle you to sit still and let me cut them.  This isn't even close to the worst they have been, but it's all I have stopped to document in awhile.

 

This year you have come to know and very memorably experience the Lord's blessing when you walk in his ways (in peacemaking with your sister, in telling the truth even when you are afraid of consequences, and in putting other's needs before your own).  You also have witnessed proof of God hearing your prayers ... via answered prayer.  In all of these very tangible lessons, you have been quick and excited to testify to those truths.  The image of your eyes bugging out of your head in your animated telling of what you have witnessed stands out in my mind.  Precious moments with you.

You room looks like this this year ... upgraded from your queen bed to a loft bed to give your Legos more much-needed space on the floor.  You are, as ever, a Lego lover to the core!





For a boy who spends all his free time with his Daddy when you have the choice, it has been a sweet progression to notice how you and I have bonded so much more this year through our school days. I cherish ALL the extra time I have been able to share with you and treasure the fact that you like our days better this way as well.  Oftentimes you catch me staring at you with a silly grin on my face and I have taken to asking you in those moments if you know what I am thinking.  You do and you answer the given truth, "That you love me."  It will always, always, always be so, NoahBrown.  And I like you even more!


You are a great kid and your momma is your biggest cheerleader and protector and teacher and fan.   I will always be in your corner.   And when you are grown I will miss these days when you were eight, when your side fit perfectly under my hand when you stood beside me, when we were in each other's space so much that I could spot you still by the scent of your breath or the smell of your head, when I could hold your sweet, smooth cheeks in my hands and stare into the different brown flecks in your eyes, when I could witness your gentle nature and your teachable spirit day in and day out, when every mom I knew would tell me how their kiddos beg to play with you more, when you were always ready to play and/or game, and when the only way to handle your energy sometimes was to wear you down by tickling you mercilessly! I love watching you grow into a new Noah each year, but I dare not hurry along these days.  I love you so much, I miss you already!

Happy Eight Years to you, my precious boy ... and us along with you!
Mommy

May 24, 2014

Beach Bound

As excited as we are to hit the road tomorrow, I can't seem to make myself start packing.  Well, except for all these goodies ...


Food and clothes are minor details anyway.  This is all we REALLY need. :D

Spring's Untold Story

Just a little dose of reality for you straight from the heart of the home of the Family Brown - the middle of the kitchen, on top of the microwave.  Our lotions and potions stash that will get our sensitive skinned kiddos through the rest of spring and summer.  Hilarious!  Had to get out the topical cooling Benedryl gel last night, too, so just draw that in there with your mind's eye. 


The only other thing we have to show from around here that is this same degree of realistic, chaotic, and lived-in is our Tupperware cabinet.  And our beds which NEVER get made. 

True stories from the Family Brown.

Girls Night Out

Just a quick shot of some ladies I love dearly and with whom I got to enjoy a Girl's Night Out with last night!  We went to a Sip, Shop, Stroll event at The Marketplace at Amberleaf where local artisans display all their cool wares.  Cathy found a pretty shutter to complement her new wall color at home, Cindy scored the cutest necklaces, Kristin won a drawing for a free prize.  I brought home some local, organic honey for my guys and plan to go back to grab a sweet little hanging bud vase I spotted for my girl. 


After shopping sweet treasures, sampling more goodies from The Ugly Pie Bakery, and even winning another raffle drawing (yay, Cathy!), we scooted over to AweDaddy's to enjoy some more live music outdoors among the marina crowd ambiance and perfectly cool night air.  Needless to say, we all went home with happy grins on our faces.  It was a sweet and low-key night with the best feels-like-home company around. ♥


These girls are the heart and soul of our small group family bible study and I so treasure the strong bond we have shared since coming together to grow in the Lord as a group.  Such sweet fellowship!  Thankful!

Watching our Garden Grow

We head out tomorrow for a week-long trip.  So Josh has been setting up stakes and nets for our quickly growing garden to keep them growing straight in our absence.  Sweet little seedlings reaching for the sky!  Grow, garden, grow!

There are little green tomatoes already there!  Josh says we have to get a fourth plant after all, too.  


Little cucumber sprouts!


Impressive snap pea sprouts!


Less than impressive watermelon sprouts, but sprouts just the same.


Half our corn sprouted, half did not.  Josh has low expectations.
Grow, corn, grow!


Please let it rain while we are gone, Lord.
Take care of our little gardens.  :)

May 23, 2014

Grade 2.0 Review

For a number of different reasons, we are going to extend Noah's second grade year into the 2014/2015 school year and call it Grade 2.5. I love the freedom and power (and awareness) I have to be able to tailor his year and our time so specifically to his learning pace and level!  Homeschooling rocks!  Anyway, that makes this current year Noah just completed more like the first half of second grade and we'll affectionately refer to is as Grade 2.0 from now on.  Before I get lost in our summer, I thought I would go ahead and record a few 2.0 details from this year that I might appreciate having further the down the road.  Anna will be hot on his heels in homeschooling in no time!

This first year of homeschooling, Noah tackled all the subjects he would have in public school, plus a couple extras ... That meant Reading, Spelling, Language, Math, Social Studies, and Science and then the additional Bible and Vocabulary.
For the entire Language Arts block, we went with Sonlight Curriculum and loved how it broke down the subjects and related activities.  It had writing and language once a week each, spelling all week and reading every day as well.  I supplemented that reading time with read-alouds and Noah's silent reading. Several months into the year, we also added an online vocabulary program which has proved to be SO worth it.  The more I worked with Noah on reading, the more I saw how much vocabulary (or lack thereof) can help (or hinder) reading comprehension.  Using Wordly Wise Online was a great self-guided computer practice for him and his vocabulary grew by leaps and bounds! Additionally, with Josh working in a school system himself, he was able to assign Noah an AR account that we have used from home and that has been really motivating for him.  In the course of this year, he's earned almost 40 AR points and is currently reading chapter books at the third grade reading level.  I call that a big win when I consider that Noah still won't choose to read without being forced to do so.  He really enjoyed the books we read all year, but still just doesn't take any ownership of reading for pleasure. All boy! Fingers still crossed that he will one day, though. :)

For History/Social Studies, we also went with Sonlight Curriculum which proved to be a real struggle ALL. Year. long.  This subject was quickly the worst part of our day and usually ended in my shouting and his tears for the first half of the year.  Not good things. Somehow, the many living books it used were just too difficult for Noah to get a grasp of the content with.  Coupled with my learning the ropes of homeschooling those first five months, it proved to be a sad hour for us both.  By January, Josh was begging me to quit SS altogether and try a new curriculum in the fall.  Not wanting to waste the money I spent on this, we pressed on, but I approached it with MUCH lower expectations for Noah while we powered through and we compressed the lessons into one day a week.  Finally, when we could take this particular curriculum no longer, I ditched it entirely in March and picked up another history curriculum  - Story of the World - that comes highly recommended and is much less expensive anyway.  We picked up in the history time spot we were in already and finished the year from there.  And that will technically be completed on the way to the beach this weekend via the audio version of the book. :)  All that explained, Noah completed a year of World History:  Ancient Times, from the earlier nomads to the last Roman Emporer ... with a lot of mapping and different religions covered in that study.  Wow!  My hope for next year is that Noah will be able to discuss and retain more information independently.  He really relied on me a lot for this subject this year, which I won't count against him.  This subject was our only "crash-and-burn" experience, so I guess that's not too bad for our first year homeschooling.

For Math, we used RightStart Mathematics and we ADORED it.  This curriculum particularly blew my mind in how it introduced and taught math concepts and it has forever changed how I will teach math ... here at home and back in the classroom one day as well.  When I was in the classroom, math was always my favorite subject to teach and it was also my third graders favorite subject, so it is not surprising at all that it was Noah's favorite subject as well.  He enjoyed it so much and looked forward to it so much, that I positioned it at the end of our school days as a built-in motivational tool for him to want to get all our other work done.  Math ended up being a reward for him and I love that he enjoyed it so much.  The Level B we used was more toward first grade skills, so it was not surprising that we flew through the curriculum and were finished by February.  So we jumped into Level C and worked our way through almost half of that before the year ended.  That puts him right at the middle of second grade in terms of math which perfectly matches our 2.5 status for the fall.  I have been astounded to watch his number sense develop so much further than I ever saw with my third graders.  You should see all the mental math that boy can do now!  We are seamlessly moving into multiplication, algebra, fractions, etc.  Surprisingly, Noah was most challenged by geometry activities ... anything spatial is less-than-intuitive for the poor boy.  So interesting to discover though! We will be staying with RightStart for next year, obviously. :}

For Science, we relied on Sonlight curriculum as we did for Language Arts and Social Studies.  Thankfully, we really, really liked the living books they chose for his science topics and after finally figuring out our teaching/learning groove together by early winter, this subject went really smoothly for Noah and me.  It was his other favorite this year.  He learned so much and I learned it right along with him!  We were amazed at all the things we discovered about animals from all different continents, space, the human body, water processing, light, magnets, and mirrors.  Since I am not exactly a science-loving girl, though, Josh mercifully took over the task of all the science experiments.  There was one every week and he did that with both kids every weekend.  We will continue with Sonlight for science next year.

For Bible, I suffered through the assigned book that corresponded with the Sonlight Core subject guide, but hated it all the while - mostly because it was such basic input that Noah and Anna are well-versed in.  I hurried us through it to call it done and when that was over, we started reading The Jesus Storybook Bible together instead for the last couple months.  Next year, I will not be using Sonlight resources for this subject.  I have several other things lined up that I found myself.  And, as ever, Josh does a LOT of concentrated bible/worship/missionary teaching with the kids every night.
When people ask us how we are liking homeschooling at this point, I find that a smitten grin comes over my face.  I love it!  I just love it. My favorite things about it are how much better Noah and I relate, how peaceful our daily groove/life is, how available our time is for special things, activities, trips and gatherings, and how much precious time we are able to spend together that I was sorely sacrificing when Noah was in public school.  I find that I adore the homeschool community we have here and that I have such a peace about the buddies and families we are getting to know and spending time with.  I count us so lucky to have been aware enough to consider this life and to have the courage to go after it.  It's not something I ever thought I would do years ago, so this all a brave new world for us.  And, like I said, it is really paying off.  We love it! 

When I ask Noah what he thinks about homeschooling now that he has a whole year done, he says the same thing - that he really likes it.  He likes how quickly we get work done, how much more time he has to play.  He likes math and science.  He loves the dartboard - aka, my secret classroom management tool.  And another highlight of this year that he relishes is something we added in January.  We enrolled him in a local co-op, Anchored Enrichment, that meets every Thursday.  He was in the 2nd/3rd grade class and jumped right in to all the normal school activities and lessons they do there, making good buddies so quickly along the way - good buddies whose parents have become sweet friends of mine as well.  Many of Noah's buddies were actually 1st graders this year, so he is so pumped about having them move up to his class in the fall.  So thankful for that community there!

Between that group and a homeschool group we joined at the start of the year, our cup has overflowed with such blessing from the Lord - confirmation, encouragement, and providence in terms of friendships and support within this homeschooling world.  So much so that we go into next year with such confidence and excitement and a touch of dread at not keeping Anna at home with us, too. :S Until then, we have all our "curricular" ducks in a row for the fall, which technically will begin in early July for Noah, and we are keeping a learning pace all summer by sheer virtue of routines we already know and love ... morning work, silent reading, read alouds, and skip counting songs in the car. :)  The beauty of homeschooling is that it's not just a boxed in chore you do in big block increments ... it's a lifestyle.  And in case I didn't already say so, we love it!

May 14, 2014

You Know Us

You know our puddle and rain shower philosophy by now, right?  GET. Out. IN. It. We just can't help ourselves.  We have rainwater in our blood, I think.










Ain't life grand?

Leaf Love

Just cuz I love my tree, 


its vibrant green leaves,


and the shine from a fresh spring rain.

Anna, the Graduate

Look


who


got


to be


super


special


last


night.


Bless her heart, she was tired as can be by the end of the ceremony.  It was a LONG day full of much activity. We all felt like the walking dead at this point!


Some shots of our girl in the slideshow that followed.




She perked up afterwards when she stole a moment with her teachers, Mrs. Leah and Mrs. Kelly, 


 and gathered her cumulative end-of-the-year project and papers to bring home.  As I remarked on how special her ABC book was, she agreed, "I know!  It seems like so long ago I was learning the letter A!"


Precious baby of mine!


Three cheers for actually completing a full year in a pre-k program for a change.  Ha!


I may not let her leave for kindergarten in the fall.  How does one relinquish such sweetness for so many hours of the week every week?


Help!